Stopping Your Opponents From Winning Is Not As Good As Winning Yourself I heard someone say this recently and it hit me like a ton of bricks. For the first five to seven years I played Commander, I was playing it wrong. Not wrong by the rules — wrong by mindset. I learned to play to stop wins, not to win myself. I've spent the last ten years unlearning that. Nothing has ever said it as clearly as that one line. The mindset I had to break Playing to stop wins feels like playing well. You're reading the table, you're holding up interaction, you're never the reason someone resolves their combo. It looks like skill. But it's a defensive crouch dressed up as strategy — and I didn't actually start improving as a player until I started playing to win. Getting there meant clearing out two specific excuses I didn't even realize I was leaning on: "Money is what's stopping me from winning." This one is comfortable because it's external....